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WordPress tells me what search terms lead people to Rikochanpornstar—it’s one of my favorite things to look at every day. As my site gets better indexed, I get more hits from more varied terms. Many are what you might expect: big clit, erect clit, futanari, etc. And apparently, a lot of people want to see big clits stretching out panties—that’s one of my favorites (If you’re looking for that, you should really belong to Denise Masino‘s excellent site—she’s the queen of clitty tentpoles). One that really made me laugh that shows up every now and then is searches for “dolphin clit.” But I was really surprised to see over the past week to see a fair number of hits from people who had typed “my clit is too big” or “my clit is too small.” Do women really spend time worrying about clit size, I wondered. Don’t we have enough ass- and boob-size worries that we have to worry about clit size, too?
But then I got to thinking about it. I didn’t even really know I had a big clit until my husband told. And when he saw it, he was smart enough just say, “Oh, cool, you have a nice big clit” and not make too a big deal about it—at first. I just thought, oh, I’m glad he likes it. At that time, I was a pretty typical repressed Japanese woman. You know: I didn’t actually look at my clit when he told me that—I just took his word for it.
If I’m being honest, though, I had known I was unusual, I probably would have been worried clit size, too, along with my boob size, my nose being too small, my ass being too flat, my jaw being too square, my head being funny shaped…OK, yes, I suppose it’s not surprising that women who think about clits worry about clits. If we have an image about a bodypart, I guess we can have image issues about it, too. I just didn’t have any clit image at all—I hardly ever looked at the thing, after all.
Since beginning my long, gradual porn education however, I’ve come to realize that I have a huge clit. A freaky clit. Sure, clits come in all shapes and sizes. And it’s true that there are a some mainstream stars like Jessica Jaymes who have nice big clitties, but they are unusual. For consistently big clits like mine, you mostly have to be into female bodybuilders like Denise Masino, Melissa Dettwiller, and Annie Rivieccio—all of whom are super hot, in my book, by the way.
But I don’t only like big clits. I like little ones too. But plenty of the girls that I think are most sexy in the world are regular sized—Aria Giovanni, Justine Joli, Tera Patrick, Rio Hamasaki—all are pretty average down there. Sure, there are definitely people who have big clit fetishes—Kraka has become one of them! But not me. I love clits in any size. Big ones are in your face and dominant; little ones are cute and mysterious. I admit, big ones are my favorite, but they’re all beautiful, and they all work the same way, too; they all contain about the same number of nerve endings, too, regardless of size. So if yours is little, you might feel jealous about the way a big one looks, but you don’t need to feel jealous about the way it works. If your partner knows what he or she is doing, clits of all sizes can send you into out-of-body quality orgasms. So don’t worry about your clit…enjoy it!
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